Good things take time.

In a recent email between my (biological) grandpa and I we were discussing my birth mom he asked me this question: Maybe your relationship with her is not yet to the point that you would…

Note that all things written are based off of personal experience.

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Friends

Lately I’ve been recognizing that many adult adoptees are in a place where it’s still dark and always has been, or they have moved out of the darkness and found surrounding light. That does not…

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Birthdays

Back in November had to take a little step back from posting. It was my birthday and as normal, birthday week often brings up many emotions for me. Sometimes birthdays are tough not because of…

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Nature vs. Nurture

Nature vs. Nurture For 27 years I’ve & been nurtured.For 1 year & 6 months I’ve been discovering about my nature. I’ve always wondered what parts of me were passed on through genetics and what…

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Apology to my Birth mom

Dear Birth mom: I have an apology to make. All my life I’ve wanted to hear about all the agony that came during and after placing me for adoption. I’ve wanted to personally hear how…

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